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Jun 27Liked by Ananya Dutta, Hailo

Love this perspective of being somewhere in the middle — I feel like a lot of the time it seems like our options are just all or nothing. I’ve also been trying to reach a good equilibrium for myself, transitioning to longer form content and listening to podcasts while i do things around the house to keep myself from wanting to be on my phone. smaller steps are def more sustainable.

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Yep, all about sustainable change. Big shifts don’t happen overnight… ironically, I think our phones make us feel like they do with all the instant gratification we get online.

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Jun 27Liked by Ananya Dutta, Hailo

really loved reading this <3 realizing that my social media habits are a genuine addiction has been simultaneously so eye-opening and so somber. have been grappling with this for the past 2 years and believe that we can find a way out!!

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Jun 27Liked by Ananya Dutta, Hailo

love this, i feel like i’m on the same journey u are!!

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Jun 27Liked by Ananya Dutta, Hailo

I know Pepper when I see it 😭 but in all seriousness, I 1000% recommend the book Stolen Focus by Johann Hari ! It goes beyond the phone screen problem into the pandemic of decreasing attention spans. I’m only halfway through but it’s sincerely life-changing! Plus the narration is *chefs kiss* 🥴

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This Hari piece in the Guardian was a huge wake up call for me a few years back

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Thank you for this! Road tripping this weekend and was looking for an audiobook recommendation - will def give it a listen :)

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Jun 27Liked by Ananya Dutta, Hailo

Mentioning making your phone feel like how It did on the mission resonated sooo much. I think that was one of the times when my mind was the clearest, I’m def gonna implement some of your ideas !

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Yay glad it resonated! Let me know how it goes 🫡

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Brb turning my phone into the blue slide one 🫡

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i get the same ads but targeted for busty girls....like, my boobs are none of your business, mark!!!

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Jun 28Liked by Ananya Dutta

Mark Zuckerberg: 🙅🏾‍♀️

The Social Network: 🤩

anyway im totally gonna watch Social Dilemma now, so many great recs and refs!!

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be prepared to wanna never go on ur phone again

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I get the same ads on YouTube and I'm a guy that's never worn a bra😕

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When I get off base ads I always wonder what in the world I looked up that they latched on to

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